Should I Move Out of My House?

Posted by Jeffrey L.. Hoffer | Sep 03, 2014 | 0 Comments

You might have heard that you must stay in the house if at all possible during a divorce. Some people have commented that if you move out, then you are essentially abandoning your family. I disagree. There are circumstances where it is perfectly appropriate to remain in the house, for example where the divorce proceedings are amicable. However, if the divorce is going to be contentious and there are children involved, then I have no problem advising my clients to move out, but stay in the same general vicinity. For example, if you live in Oak Park, then find a place to live in Oak Park. Stay close to your children.

When this subject comes up, I am reminded of a movie called War of the Roses starring Michael Douglas and Kathleen Turner. He refused to move out of the house and actually drew red dividing lines throughout. Their separation became so violent that they both ended up dead at the end. There is no law in California that requires a court to order a spouse to move out of the home absent domestic violence. Imagine being noticed for a court date on a domestic violence petition with a kick out request. She makes up all kinds of lies that you hit her or threatened her but the court in an abundance of caution orders you to move out and grants the restraining order.

That will have a serious impact on your custodial rights. Before making decisions about remaining in the house or moving out, you need to consider ALL of the possibilities and circumstances. Remember, if you already moved out, your spouse cannot accuse you of becoming violent.My office is located in Westlake Village on the LA County/Ventura County boundary line. If you live in the Conejo Valley, Thousand Oaks, Oak Park and the surrounding communities, I am here to serve you. Call (805) 449-4290 or email me at [email protected]

About the Author

Jeffrey L.. Hoffer

About Our Accomplished Divorce & Family Law Attorney in Thousand Oaks & Agoura Hills Jeffrey is a seasoned divorce lawyer who focuses his efforts on achieving excellent results for his clients in divorce and family law matters. Over his career, the results he has obtained translated into million...


There are no comments for this post. Be the first and Add your Comment below.

Leave a Comment

Focused Preparation & Client Involvement

We provide aggressive negotiation on behalf of our clients. You can expect clear communication from our firm at every step of the process.

We're Here to Help You, Contact Us Today

Let us provide detailed and helpful legal advice in your family matter. Call us today at 805-449-4290 to find out how we will fight for your rights.

Copyright © 2020 Hoffer Family Law Firm

The information on this website is for general information purposes only. Nothing on this site should be taken as legal advice for any individual case or situation. This information is not intended to create, and receipt or viewing does not constitute, an attorney-client relationship.